• Dating Issues - Single - Trauma

    You Call It Single, I Call It Peace

    Ah yes—the classic insult thrown when someone runs out of clever arguments:“No wonder you’re single.” As if that’s supposed to burn. Spoiler alert: it doesn’t. If anything, it reveals more about their mindset than your marital status. Let’s be honest. Being single is often the result of high standards, not low value. It’s the reward for not settling, not a…

  • Single

    Single, Not Sorry – A Love Letter to the Unpartnered

    “No wonder you’re still single.” There’s a strange kind of pity reserved for single people, especially those of us who’ve been single long enough to appear comfortable. It’s not always spoken outright. Sometimes it’s wrapped in concern: “Don’t you want someone?” Other times, it’s offered like a curse: “No wonder you’re still single.” As if solitude were a punishment instead…