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    Breaking Up - Growth - Heartbreak

    From Lovers to Strangers

    May 7, 2025 - By Ruby

    Sometimes, love meets us in a moment when we are not ready to receive it fully. Or we are, and they are not. The reasons vary. Timing. Distance. Circumstances neither of you could change. Still, it leaves you with the ache of unfinished conversation and the weight of unspoken goodbyes. It’s a strange thing—to become strangers with someone who knows…

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  • We do not speak of them anymore.
    Breaking Up - Dark Relationship - Heartbreak

    The Bond We Never Talk About

    May 4, 2025 - By Ruby

    You don’t always lose someone in a dramatic, cinematic way. Sometimes, you just stop speaking. You drift. The messages grow shorter. The silence grows louder. And before you know it, you are two people carrying pieces of each other’s truth—no longer in each other’s lives, but never entirely out of them. There are people we do not speak of, not…

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  • Ghosts of the past
    Dating Issues

    Unspoken Bonds and the Ghosts We Carry

    May 2, 2025 - By Ruby

    There’s something deeply unsettling about someone who knows your truths. Not the curated, social-media-friendly truths, but the raw ones—the ones you whisper into the dark and hope no one hears. When that person becomes a stranger, it feels like walking around with your soul slightly ajar. The silence between ex-lovers isn’t empty. It’s loud. It’s filled with all the conversations…

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  • Breaking Up - Heartbreak

    If the Love Is Real, Why Did It Leave?

    April 30, 2025 - By Ruby

    Let’s start with a hard truth: love, no matter how real, doesn’t always mean forever. Sometimes it means for now, and occasionally, it means until one of us figures out how to function like a semi-stable adult. The idea that “if the love is real, we’ll see each other again” sounds romantic, but it can also be a very convenient…

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  • Breaking Up - Heartbreak

    The Aftermath of a Breakup: When Is It Time to Move On?

    September 18, 2024 - By Ruby

    When my serious relationship ended, I didn’t realize how much time I’d spend replaying every moment, wondering where it all went wrong. There’s a certain weight that comes with breakups, a dull ache that makes it feel like the world is standing still while you’re still sifting through the ruins of what was once “us.” Moving on is never easy…

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  • Dating Tips - Gaslighting - Growth - Relationship Advice

    Are You Settling? Signs You’re Accepting Less in Dating (And Why I Stopped Chasing)

    September 14, 2024 - By Ruby

    I’ve been there. The sleepless nights, overthinking every word exchanged, and clinging to a relationship that, deep down, I knew wasn’t right. But I wasn’t ready to let go. I convinced myself that if I just tried harder, gave more, or   waited   longer, things would magically change. Spoiler alert: They didn’t. For a long time, I believed that compromise was…

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  • Banter - Bickering - Compatibility - Growth

    Is Bickering Healthy in Relationships? Unraveling the Banter vs. Bicker Conundrum

    October 13, 2023 - By Ruby

    Have you ever wondered if the constant bickering in your relationship is a sign of trouble or just part of the journey? We’ve all been there. Some days it seems like you can’t go a single day without a spat. But is it all doom and gloom? In this article, we’ll explore whether bickering is a healthy aspect of relationships…

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  • Friendship - Situationship

    Want More Confusion In Your Life? Enter a Situationship

    September 21, 2023 - By Ruby

     Ah, the “situationship.” What a maze of mixed feelings and unsaid words. It’s like standing on a bridge made of fog—feels kinda solid, but not enough to let your guard down.  You’re with someone, sure, but labels? Nah. Who needs ’em? Except deep down, you kinda wish there was one, right? What is a situationship? It’s best described by a…

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