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  • Emotional Regression - Unrequited Love

    Jeez, Emotional Regression: I Will NEVER Again Judge People Who Hook Up at High School Reunions!

    October 15, 2024 - By Ruby

    You know those stories about people who have been happily married for 30 years, only to attend a high school or grade school reunion and suddenly fall head over heels for their old crush? The kind of emotional tornado where they’re even considering leaving their families behind? I always thought those people were either going senile or, frankly, just losing…

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  • Breaking Up - Heartbreak

    Breakups Teach Us to Embrace the Unknown

    October 7, 2024 - By Ruby

    Life is a series of uncertainties, and perhaps one of the most profound uncertainties we face is the unpredictability of our relationships. Break-ups, though often painful and emotionally taxing, offer us a valuable lesson in navigating the uncharted waters of the unknown. They teach us to appreciate, or at the very least, accept the concept of not knowing and help…

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  • Breaking Up - Dating Tips - Heartbreak

    Did You Lose Your “Mojo” to Your Ex?

    September 24, 2024 - By Ruby

    What is ‘mojo’? Mojo is a simple charm you keep with you at all times to turn bad luck into good fortune. In the personal development context, it’s that magic you have about you that makes you a success, lands you a job and gets you what you want. It’s your ‘aura’; the thing that makes you unforgettable. The glint…

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  • Compatibility - Dating Tips - Friendship - Intimacy - Situationship

    Questions When to Transition from Platonic Friends to Hopeful Lovers

    September 19, 2024 - By Ruby

    We’ve all heard those heartwarming tales of friends turned lovers in movies, songs, and maybe even in our own lives. There’s something undeniably magical about the shift from platonic to romantic, where the familiar becomes something more. Today, we’re delving into this enchanting realm, guided by Anne’s (not her real name) relatable story, to help you decipher whether that special…

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  • Breaking Up - Heartbreak

    The Aftermath of a Breakup: When Is It Time to Move On?

    September 18, 2024 - By Ruby

    When my serious relationship ended, I didn’t realize how much time I’d spend replaying every moment, wondering where it all went wrong. There’s a certain weight that comes with breakups, a dull ache that makes it feel like the world is standing still while you’re still sifting through the ruins of what was once “us.” Moving on is never easy…

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  • Change - Codependency - Growth - Heartbreak

    Rediscovering Yourself After a Relationship: Who Were You Before “Us”?

    September 15, 2024 - By Ruby

    There’s a strange kind of fog that rolls in after a breakup. Not just the obvious heartache or grief, but a deeper sense of disorientation — as if you’ve lost something more than just the relationship. For many of us, the hardest part of moving on isn’t letting go of the other person; it’s remembering who we were before the…

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  • Dating Tips - Gaslighting - Growth - Relationship Advice

    Are You Settling? Signs You’re Accepting Less in Dating (And Why I Stopped Chasing)

    September 14, 2024 - By Ruby

    I’ve been there. The sleepless nights, overthinking every word exchanged, and clinging to a relationship that, deep down, I knew wasn’t right. But I wasn’t ready to let go. I convinced myself that if I just tried harder, gave more, or   waited   longer, things would magically change. Spoiler alert: They didn’t. For a long time, I believed that compromise was…

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  • One Night Stand

    First Dates are Auditions

    August 28, 2024 - By Ruby

      You’ve just had the most amazing first date. It was like something out of a cheesy rom-com where the rain starts falling just as you kiss goodnight. You’re floating on cloud nine, convinced that you’ve finally found “the one.” But what if, instead of finding the love of your life, you’re just feeding a delusion? Let’s be honest: first…

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  • Friendship - Gaslighting - Heartbreak - One Night Stand - Relationship Advice

    The Myth of the Lightning Connection

    August 27, 2024 - By Ruby

    There you are, sitting across from a stranger who is suddenly not a stranger. Sparks fly, the room fades away, and you find yourself speaking in a movie script. “This is it,” you think. “I’ve found the one!” But before you start planning your couple’s Instagram handle, let’s pause for a reality check. We all love a good story. That…

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  • Heartbreak - One Night Stand

    When You Finally Realize You Have Been Played: My Personal Experience

    July 28, 2024 - By Ruby

    It’s astonishing how quickly dreams can crumble. For weeks, I was soaring, entangled in what seemed like the start of something extraordinary. He was attentive, charming, and seemed genuinely captivated by me. Every text, every late-night chat, every tender moment felt like a step toward something meaningful. But now, as reality sets in, I understand how mistaken I was.  I’ve…

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