Dating is not just about swiping, texting, or surviving awkward first dates. The real work begins long before you meet someone. It starts with understanding yourself. Journaling is more than a way to record daily events. It is a tool to reflect, grow, and uncover what you truly need from a partner. When you know yourself, you stop settling for…
Happiness is not the rush you feel after one good date. It is not the sudden sense that you have “finally found your person” because someone laughed at your joke and touched your arm. That is chemistry. Chemistry is loud. Happiness is not. Happiness is closer to emotional hygiene. It is routine. It is unexciting. It is doing small things…
Ah yes—the classic insult thrown when someone runs out of clever arguments:“No wonder you’re single.” As if that’s supposed to burn. Spoiler alert: it doesn’t. If anything, it reveals more about their mindset than your marital status. Let’s be honest. Being single is often the result of high standards, not low value. It’s the reward for not settling, not a…
“No wonder you’re still single.” There’s a strange kind of pity reserved for single people, especially those of us who’ve been single long enough to appear comfortable. It’s not always spoken outright. Sometimes it’s wrapped in concern: “Don’t you want someone?” Other times, it’s offered like a curse: “No wonder you’re still single.” As if solitude were a punishment instead…