For years, I thought buying things was the same as self-care. A new bag after a hard week. Designer shoes because “I deserved them.” But beneath the glossy shopping bags and momentary highs, there was something else: stress. Credit card guilt. A creeping sense that I was working just to keep up with people whose lives weren’t even mine to…
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In the 1990 film Dances with Wolves, adapted from Michael Blake’s novel, Lieutenant John Dunbar embarks on a transformative journey from a disillusioned soldier to a member of the Lakota Sioux tribe. His story isn’t just a tale of survival or adventure; it is an exploration of personal growth, empathy, and the complexities of identity—important lessons for anyone looking to…
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We all crave love in our lives, but how we define and seek that love varies from person to person. Is it about popularity, attention, or the number of admirers we attract? Many folks claim to be “unlucky in love,” but often, the real issue lies elsewhere, unrelated to the give-and-take of affection. In this article, we’ll explore the fundamental…
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Frugality as a self-love strategy? Think back to the wise words your parents used to impart: “You have to do this now for a better future.” While this advice was often given in the context of building a secure financial future, it holds a more profound truth. Your new objective is to be frugal not just to secure your financial…
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On social media, the curated lives of others are on perpetual display. Thus, the concept of self-love has gained unprecedented attention. It’s a topic that resonates with students striving for self-actualization and parents hoping to instill a sense of self-worth in their children. Yet, the journey towards self-love is often fraught with questions, some of which are deeply introspective and…
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You are an empath and you have healing gifts. Anyone who receives them from you by mere texting, a short but deep conversation, or a heartfelt hug knows the magnitude of healing you can give. But sometimes, you feel off, like your equilibrium is off. You have rough days because you’ve been exposed to negativity, both external and internal. You…
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Once upon a time in my life, I was just a piece of driftwood floating along the cosmic river. There were days when the world’s confusion clouded my vision, making each step heavier than the last. Then I discovered something extraordinary, something almost magical—self-reflection. Not just the casual musings we engage in while showering or before falling asleep, but a…
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The Divine Resonance: What Empathy Really Is Ah, empathy. The cosmic link that allows us to peer into the windows of another’s soul. Picture yourself as a droplet in an infinite ocean, a mere fragment of the greater expanse. Empathy is the celestial current that carries your essence towards the experiences, emotions, and worlds of others, inviting you into their…
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Dating is not just about swiping, texting, or surviving awkward first dates. The real work begins long before you meet someone. It starts with understanding yourself. Journaling is more than a way to record daily events. It is a tool to reflect, grow, and uncover what you truly need from a partner. When you know yourself, you stop settling for…
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Dating can feel like a credit card with a very low limit. Every excuse you make, every ignored red flag, every “maybe they will change” charge adds up—and eventually the interest comes due. Emotional exhaustion is real, and yet so many of us keep spending it like it’s limitless. Ask yourself: if you are already emotionally drained, does it make…