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    Questions When to Transition from Platonic Friends to Hopeful Lovers

    September 19, 2024 - By Ruby

    We’ve all heard those heartwarming tales of friends turned lovers in movies, songs, and maybe even in our own lives. There’s something undeniably magical about the shift from platonic to romantic, where the familiar becomes something more. Today, we’re delving into this enchanting realm, guided by Anne’s (not her real name) relatable story, to help you decipher whether that special…

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  • Breaking Up - Change - Codependency - Compatibility - Gaslighting

    Self-Sacrificing for Love: Is His Happiness More Valuable Than Mine?

    July 12, 2024 - By Ruby

      “It’s not my fault that I shine brighter than you, but for the sake of our relationship, I will try to shine less.” Later, I finally understood that not only did my partner NEVER appreciate my efforts to support him by stroking his ego and sacrificing mine, he also felt more pitiful because my self-sacrifice only made him see…

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  • Breaking Up - Codependency - Compatibility - Gaslighting

    Settling for Less Than You Deserve Due to Loneliness

    July 9, 2024 - By Ruby

      I was so lonely that I settled for less. I tricked myself into thinking that even poor treatment is OK as long as I am not alone. Perhaps this is all I deserve now.  Does this sound familiar? This a situation where someone’s intense desire for a relationship distorts their perception of reality, much like the psychological manipulation known…

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  • Breaking Up - Compatibility - Stereotypes

    Transforming Into a Different Person for Love

    July 4, 2024 - By Ruby

    You changed for the person you love, or they made you change? What does it matter if you decided to change or the pressure from your partner made you discard your old self and create a new one especially for them (so that they wouldn’t leave)? You’re no longer the person you once were, and now, even your closest friends…

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    Secrets of a Gemini Guy

    November 3, 2023 - By Ruby

    The Fascinating Paradox of the Gemini Guy  The Magician of Multitasking  I remember the first time I saw My Gemini Guy in action. He was juggling a phone call with a client, scrolling through a presentation on his laptop, and somehow also managing to make himself a sandwich—all without breaking a sweat. It was mesmerizing and a tad overwhelming.  To…

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  • Banter - Bickering - Compatibility - Growth

    Is Bickering Healthy in Relationships? Unraveling the Banter vs. Bicker Conundrum

    October 13, 2023 - By Ruby

    Have you ever wondered if the constant bickering in your relationship is a sign of trouble or just part of the journey? We’ve all been there. Some days it seems like you can’t go a single day without a spat. But is it all doom and gloom? In this article, we’ll explore whether bickering is a healthy aspect of relationships…

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  • Change - Compatibility - Growth

    Achieving True Compatibility is Like Tandem Swimming

    September 3, 2023 - By Ruby

    You know, I used to believe that finding the perfect match was the ultimate secret to a successful relationship. I clung to this idea for quite some time, and it probably contributed to my “player” persona back in the day. I’d assess compatibility based on various factors like shared interests, social status, and maturity levels.  Yes, Criteria.   Having some criteria…

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