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    Rediscovering Yourself After a Relationship: Who Were You Before “Us”?

    September 15, 2024 - By Ruby

    There’s a strange kind of fog that rolls in after a breakup. Not just the obvious heartache or grief, but a deeper sense of disorientation — as if you’ve lost something more than just the relationship. For many of us, the hardest part of moving on isn’t letting go of the other person; it’s remembering who we were before the…

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    A Joke of a Promise: The Delusion of a One-Night Stand

    July 17, 2024 - By Ruby

      I still remember the way he looked at me that first night we met. His eyes seemed to speak volumes, telling me that I was special, that I was different. It was the beginning of a whirlwind of attention and affection that lasted for weeks. Every text, every call, every little gesture felt like a promise of something more.…

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  • Breaking Up - Change - Codependency - Compatibility - Gaslighting

    Self-Sacrificing for Love: Is His Happiness More Valuable Than Mine?

    July 12, 2024 - By Ruby

      “It’s not my fault that I shine brighter than you, but for the sake of our relationship, I will try to shine less.” Later, I finally understood that not only did my partner NEVER appreciate my efforts to support him by stroking his ego and sacrificing mine, he also felt more pitiful because my self-sacrifice only made him see…

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  • Breaking Up - Codependency - Compatibility - Gaslighting

    Settling for Less Than You Deserve Due to Loneliness

    July 9, 2024 - By Ruby

      I was so lonely that I settled for less. I tricked myself into thinking that even poor treatment is OK as long as I am not alone. Perhaps this is all I deserve now.  Does this sound familiar? This a situation where someone’s intense desire for a relationship distorts their perception of reality, much like the psychological manipulation known…

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  • Breaking Up - Codependency - Situationship

    On My Pedestal There Was No Room for Me

    July 7, 2024 - By Ruby

      She can’t accept their break-up. She said she could not go on without him and begs him to reconsider. He walks away anyway, even if his guilt is great. Now, she blames him for her misery and claims that he broke her, made her into a shell of her usual self. Who lost? Who is at fault? When someone…

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  • Codependency - Dark Relationship - Heartbreak - Relationship Advice

    3 Signs You Are a Victim of Emotional Manipulation

    May 29, 2024 - By Ruby

    When it comes to relationships, emotional manipulation is a tricky, under-the-radar kind of mistreatment that can leave you feeling confused and drained. While both men and women can be manipulative, emotional manipulation doesn’t discriminate; it can happen to anyone, regardless of gender or sexual orientation.  So, how do you know if you’re being manipulated? Here are three major signs to…

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  • Codependency - Dating Issues - Growth - Spoken Poetry - Spoken Word - What is Love

    Spoken Word: What Does It Mean to Yearn for Forever?

    September 17, 2023 - By Ruby

     What does forever mean in words of yearning? It means I believe in the promise of tomorrow, in the idea that life with you will be full of more surprises than I can imagine.  Forever to me is like a book with blank pages, waiting to be filled with the stories we’ll write together.  I see a future where we…

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