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    When You Finally Realize You Have Been Played: My Personal Experience

    July 28, 2024 - By Ruby

    It’s astonishing how quickly dreams can crumble. For weeks, I was soaring, entangled in what seemed like the start of something extraordinary. He was attentive, charming, and seemed genuinely captivated by me. Every text, every late-night chat, every tender moment felt like a step toward something meaningful. But now, as reality sets in, I understand how mistaken I was.  I’ve…

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  • Breaking Up - Codependency - Gaslighting - Heartbreak - One Night Stand

    A Joke of a Promise: The Delusion of a One-Night Stand

    July 17, 2024 - By Ruby

      I still remember the way he looked at me that first night we met. His eyes seemed to speak volumes, telling me that I was special, that I was different. It was the beginning of a whirlwind of attention and affection that lasted for weeks. Every text, every call, every little gesture felt like a promise of something more.…

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  • Breaking Up - Change - Codependency - Compatibility - Gaslighting

    Self-Sacrificing for Love: Is His Happiness More Valuable Than Mine?

    July 12, 2024 - By Ruby

      “It’s not my fault that I shine brighter than you, but for the sake of our relationship, I will try to shine less.” Later, I finally understood that not only did my partner NEVER appreciate my efforts to support him by stroking his ego and sacrificing mine, he also felt more pitiful because my self-sacrifice only made him see…

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  • Breaking Up - Codependency - Compatibility - Gaslighting

    Settling for Less Than You Deserve Due to Loneliness

    July 9, 2024 - By Ruby

      I was so lonely that I settled for less. I tricked myself into thinking that even poor treatment is OK as long as I am not alone. Perhaps this is all I deserve now.  Does this sound familiar? This a situation where someone’s intense desire for a relationship distorts their perception of reality, much like the psychological manipulation known…

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  • Breaking Up - Codependency - Situationship

    On My Pedestal There Was No Room for Me

    July 7, 2024 - By Ruby

      She can’t accept their break-up. She said she could not go on without him and begs him to reconsider. He walks away anyway, even if his guilt is great. Now, she blames him for her misery and claims that he broke her, made her into a shell of her usual self. Who lost? Who is at fault? When someone…

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  • Breaking Up - Compatibility - Stereotypes

    Transforming Into a Different Person for Love

    July 4, 2024 - By Ruby

    You changed for the person you love, or they made you change? What does it matter if you decided to change or the pressure from your partner made you discard your old self and create a new one especially for them (so that they wouldn’t leave)? You’re no longer the person you once were, and now, even your closest friends…

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