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    Spoken Word: He Sees Me

    September 28, 2023 - By Ruby

    He’s like an anchor, grounding me, but in the most liberating way.  It’s as if he’s whispering, “You’re allowed to exist. Fully, completely.” I used to think that being seen would mean I’d be found out… that my weaknesses and flaws would be exposed. But he’s flipped the script on me.  He’s seen my fears, and instead of turning away,…

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  • Friendship - Situationship

    Want More Confusion In Your Life? Enter a Situationship

    September 21, 2023 - By Ruby

     Ah, the “situationship.” What a maze of mixed feelings and unsaid words. It’s like standing on a bridge made of fog—feels kinda solid, but not enough to let your guard down.  You’re with someone, sure, but labels? Nah. Who needs ’em? Except deep down, you kinda wish there was one, right? What is a situationship? It’s best described by a…

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  • Codependency - Dating Issues - Growth - Spoken Poetry - Spoken Word - What is Love

    Spoken Word: What Does It Mean to Yearn for Forever?

    September 17, 2023 - By Ruby

     What does forever mean in words of yearning? It means I believe in the promise of tomorrow, in the idea that life with you will be full of more surprises than I can imagine.  Forever to me is like a book with blank pages, waiting to be filled with the stories we’ll write together.  I see a future where we…

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  • Spoken Poetry - Spoken Word - Valentines - What is Love

    Spoken Word: All I Ask is to Let Me Love You

    September 16, 2023 - By Ruby

    Sometimes, late at night, I find myself staring at the ceiling, wrestling with a swirling vortex of thoughts that refuse to be tamed. Isn’t that the case for so many of us? My mind clings to one haunting question: What would it take for you to just let go and embrace the love I’m offering? Why is love such a…

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  • Breaking Up - Change - Growth

    Never Breaking Up is a Myth

    September 8, 2023 - By Ruby

    Why is it dangerous to say “we will never break up”? Here is a lesson in relationship realism that I learned the hard way.  Early love is beautiful and those currently in its throes can feel invincible and certain about their future as a couple. It’s not uncommon for couples deeply in love to make grand declarations like “we will…

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  • Change - Compatibility - Growth

    Achieving True Compatibility is Like Tandem Swimming

    September 3, 2023 - By Ruby

    You know, I used to believe that finding the perfect match was the ultimate secret to a successful relationship. I clung to this idea for quite some time, and it probably contributed to my “player” persona back in the day. I’d assess compatibility based on various factors like shared interests, social status, and maturity levels.  Yes, Criteria.   Having some criteria…

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