I’ve encouraged online dating and interaction from day one because I have met wonderful people here and have learned a lot from my online friendships. Now, this post is where I say “but…”

There’s a website, WomanSavers.com, that’s made specifically for ladies who want to get alerted on men who could be their best dates ever or could mean trouble. It’s the largest men rating service promoting safer dating, and also the number one most popular abused women’s forum on the internet.

It brings women together by warning each other on cheating and abusive men. The goal is to propel the friendliest and best men to the top, and the lowest of the low to the bottom, where they belong. They have surveys that tackle provocative issues like infidelity, sex, relationship and dating, and over 300,000 women have been polled.

There are freebies such as:

• Free medical advice from a volunteer doctor
• Free psychotherapy advice from a psychotherapist specializing in sociopaths and narcissists
• Free custom women’s cartoon comedies and women’s games (my favorite is the Relationship Tarot Reading)

Why my readers should bookmark WomanSavers.com

Girls. It’s like having a circle of friends or a friend of a friend to talk to about this guy you met online. It’s like asking them “Do you know this guy? Is he for real?” A way to know about a guy is by talking to his ex. The forums are interactive and your identity is protected.

Guys. There’s a little search bar there where you can input your name and see if you’ve been rated. It’s an international search and no matter where you’re from, you could check if someone you screwed over from your country or state has rated you. My personal request is that, if you do find your name there, please tell us about it. Why? So that we can all go there to defend you, of course. *innocent smile*

Everyone. This site’s proceeds are donated to abused women and children?s charities, so we’ll be doing a whole world of good just by visiting and joining.