Relationship Tips for Guys: What Women Want From Men

Generalizing what a woman wants from a man is not easy. Most women think differently and it takes a lot of intuition on your part to really understand what a woman’s thinking. Some women will say they want men who can protect them (like Prince Charming, or some knight from a fairytale). Some will say they want men who will treat them as an equal.

Asking a girl directly will only confuse you, so don’t. However, there is a way to find out what a woman wants from you by taking a closer look at how she tests you.

What are these relationship tests?

Relationship tests come in various forms. They can be the loaded questions that a woman asks on your first date, or they can be the small “pretty-please” favors that a girl asks of you.

Whatever they are, they tell of what the girl you’re with really wants in a boyfriend.

For example…

1. She wants to know if you are a pushover.

Most women are looking for boyfriends, but they can’t pass up the men who are so willing to be their slaves. Can you imagine having a personal “bottomless” purse following you around in a shopping mall or buying you drinks in a bar? That’s the kind of slavery I’m talking about.

The women see these men as “guy friends” who can be used. Not that women WANT to use them, but these guys make girls feel that it’s their pleasure to be of service… so hey, who can resist?

Women will think of being with these men to a certain extent. As far as being practical goes, oh yeah definitely, these pushovers are a catch. But girls get bored of these men pretty quickly, particularly when these guys start demanding something back.

Remember, you want a woman to pursue you, fall in love with you and treat you like her king… you don’t want her to pity you or take you for granted because you let her walk all over you.

2. She wants to know if you can commit.

Monogamy becomes an issue when a girl suspects you’re a player. This line of thinking shows in the way she asks are-you-a-player questions.

For instance, a woman asks, “How come you don’t have a girlfriend? Can’t you commit?”

You can say “I’ll commit when I find the right girl.”

Saying it this way is like killing two birds with one stone. First, you’re telling her you’re capable of commitment. Second, you’re making her wonder if she’s the “right girl” you’re talking about.

3. She wants to know if you can be trusted.

More specifically, she wants to know if you’re going to hit on her best friend when she’s not looking.

To test you, a girl will concoct some weird “what if” scenarios like … a threesome between you, her and another girl. Whatever you do, just say no.

Even if you secretly want to do her friend, just say you “will never do it”.

Trust is an issue in most relationships, and a girl will only really let herself fall for you if you show that you can be trusted.