Risky Flirting: How to Neg and Tease Women

To be able to attract and flirt with any woman anywhere, a guy should develop the following traits:

1. The confidence to approach
2. The sense of humor to laugh at himself
3. The ability to bounce back after a rejection
4. The audacity to tease a woman he barely knows
5. The talent to act fast if and when a woman responds positively

You might be wondering why “good looks” and “fat bank account” are not included in the list. Are these traits not necessary to women? Of course, they are! But I’ll let you on a little secret:

The “impression” or the “perception” of being good looking and rich is enough to make women like you.

This means if you can wear clothes that fit and in colors that complement your natural features, and strictly abide by the rules of good hygiene (put on deodorant, brush and floss your teeth, use oil control for your face and trim your facial hair), you’re going to fit in what most women think of as “good looking”.

In the same context, showing the body language and speech patterns of someone who is well-off enough to attend the best bourgeois schools, has the carefree attitude to try rock climbing or scuba diving, and has the money to visit another city or a beautiful Asian country like the Philippines at least once a year (even if your family is from there and your mom’s shouldering half of your airfare) will make women perceive you as a better catch than a stressed-out, pale-faced guy who kills himself working overtime everyday to make more than you do.

Because rich and good looking are traits that are too subjective, YES the five characteristics listed above are the major requirements for RISKY FLIRTING. You have to develop these traits first before you attempt teasing a girl by playful banter, innuendo, pick up lines and these mysterious, dirty comments called “negs”.

Negs

Let me define the concept of “negging” from the vantage point of someone who has fallen for it in the past. Libra guy told me ‘that was a nice kiss but I wouldn’t kiss my dog like that, I might bore him to death” when we kissed for the first time. Floating in the aftermath of a gentle kiss, I was shocked to the core by that neg… and set forth to make him pay for calling the kiss “boring”.

A neg comment is an odd mixture of a compliment and a jibe.

This has been described as the best way to make women perk up and take notice because a straight compliment sounds too cheesy or corny (not to mention insincere), and a straight jibe will make you look like an insensitive jerk.

For instance, you can say something like “I wonder why I keep getting hit on by beautiful women wearing a red dress.” as soon as a girl wearing a red dress approaches the bar where you’re seated. The implication that she’s about to hit on you is the negative part of that comment, while the “beautiful women” line is the compliment.

She will feel disgruntled but won’t be all out angry because you “sort of” complimented her… she doesn’t know whether to say thank you or ‘whaaaat?!?’, and if you’re lucky, she might just strike back with a neg of her own (which means you just grabbed her attention and she’s likely to start a conversation with you).

If you play your cards right, you’re going to get her riled up enough to keep exchanging banter with you, which you can turn into a tool to increase sexual tension.