Flirting Tips For Men – How to Avoid Getting Rejected by Women

If you like a girl the first time you see her, your first instinct is to approach her, shower her with compliments and make her feel special by buying stuff for her. Before you do any more damage… stop right there and listen up. First of all, making a girl feel that you’re so into her that you can’t stop talking or fidgeting will only make her think of you as a creep.

You see, gorgeous women have been rejecting creepy guys for a long time and if you act this way around her, she will see you as target practice.

These attractive women are fed up with guys who try to appeal to their sense of gratitude or mercy, so if you can present a challenge to the girl you want to date through your body language and conversation, you can get her attention (and consequently, her affection).

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Here are some tips on how to get a girl you like to like you back.

1. Be Mysterious

A girl can feel your vibe as soon as you approach, and she will probably feel that you’re into her, but she won’t know for sure unless you say it out loud.

The fact that you approached her first means you want to start a conversation with her, and this triggers an alarm inside her brain that says ‘oh no, not another bonehead who will talk about anything to get my number’.

Because you know this preconceived notion of hers, you must act different from the other men in the vicinity. For starters, you can introduce yourself, shake her hand and then talk about anything you want that doesn’t amount to ‘may I have your number’.

If she can’t “read” your intentions based on your initial conversation with her, she will drop her guard and enjoy the conversation instead of thinking up ways to reject you.

2. Turn Small Talk into a Seduction Tool

The fact is, what you talk to a girl about doesn’t matter. Your tone, your behavior and how you make her feel while you’re in conversation are the things you must focus on. Once you get a girl talking, and while you’re listening attentively and asking her questions, you can touch her in a platonic way.

The objective is to make her feel your presence in a physical manner.

For instance, you can inch closer as you’re talking or you can place your hand on hers for a while. Making her feel the warmth of your touch for a few seconds will make her feel more connected with you.

3. Tease Her

Once you move from small talk to banter, you can increase her awareness of your presence by teasing her. You can start by saying ‘oh c’mon’ when she says something flippant. Teasing is a subtle method for slightly pushing a woman away, to make her want to talk to you more.

If you’re still wondering how to get a girl you like to start thinking of you and only you all evening, you can use these three tips as soon as the weekend rolls in. Remember, all these tips are meant to be practiced, and you must keep your seduction game updated to really be successful with women.

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