Top 10 Signs You’re a Bad Boy and Why Women Like You Anyway
Have you heard? Bad boys attract women more often than nice guys. But why? For reasons that nice guys and even the bad boys themselves cannot comprehend, women prefer naughty over nice, and they fall for the bad seeds more often than the good ones.
Outing Your “Closet Bad Boy”: Top 10 Signs You’ve Been Bad
So, are you a bad boy or a nice guy? If you’re confused, here are some of Evil Woobie’s thoughts on how bad boys behave, and why women fall for ‘bad boys’ more than the nice guys.
10. You initially come off as a jerk THEN you decide to show a soft side.
Girls hate you initially because you seem mysterious and sullen. You make us think “What’s this guy about??” Then, just when we’re ready to brand you “creep-o”, you flash the most endearing, boyish grin ever and you make girls think “oooh, he’s not so bad”.
9. You’ve said the F-word, B-word and S-word in front of women… and didn’t apologize (*gasp*)
You reserve your apology for times when it’s really needed, and definitely not for the times when you’ve done nothing wrong according to your standards. If people dislike occasional cussing, they can simply cover their ears and go F- themselves, right?
8. You answer “no” simply and without explanation when a woman asks if you’re a playboy (and change the subject if she asks again).
The fact that she asked means you look and talk like a player, and you’re probably too smooth to be ‘average’. She might also have known you from school, or from the office and have heard more than a few juicy details about how you date women. Answering “no” confuses her a bit and makes her rethink her initial judgment. She gives you a “chance”.
7. You don’t understand why a girl is pissed at you for making other plans immediately after she turned you down.
Being completely OK with a girl’s rejection is a sure sign you’re a bad boy. You’re not bothered that you don’t have a date for Saturday because it means you will be able to meet more women then. Sure, you’re sad that she didn’t want to go out with you, but you also feel relieved that you learned about her feelings early on before you wasted more time trying to get her to date you. And no, it didn’t occur to you that her rejection was a “test”.
6. You’re either a boyfriend to several girls, or you’re a boyfriend to one girl and a friend with benefits to the rest.
It’s not that you have commitment phobia, you just do NOT see the connection between thinking of one girl as The-Most-Likely-to-Bear-Your-Kids and the fact that you give in to the “call of nature” when prompted.
5. Your dates mostly end in the bedroom.
It’s almost a given for you to reserve a room before your date even starts. You simply do not want to get caught with no plan at all if you and your date felt like taking things to the next level.
4. You can’t imagine not introducing yourself or not saying hi when a pretty girl walks by.
“Hello” is a greeting and you want to greet women… sincerely. You don’t have the intention of saying hello just to sleep with a girl. Being friendly has become your way of saying “this room is way brighter now that you walked in”… In fact, you might have said that EXACT line to her as soon as she walked in.
3. You notice your girlfriend sit up straighter and hang on to you more tightly when other attractive women are around.
You know you’re a prize, but you’re thrilled she thinks so, too.
2. You secretly long for a woman who will understand why you’re the way you are.
Translation: you want a girl who will put up with your lifestyle, will love you anyway, and will stay with you even after being warned (by her friends and family) about your “womanizing” ways.
1. You don’t think you’re a Bad Boy at all…
You know about bad men, and these men hurt people. That’s not you. You believe that you’re a good person deep inside, you wouldn’t hurt a fly, and you feel amused that people think you’re “bad”.
and finally, here are the reason why women love bad boys…
How the Traits of the Bad Boy Stereotype Affect Women’s Emotions
Rarity – Women put a lot of value on guys who live by their own rules. In a sea of people-pleasers, the bad boys stand out like a sore thumb.
Adventure – Women are more bound by the rules of society than men. There are so much more that we aren’t “supposed to do” than men. When women find someone who embodies the freedom we crave, we are instantly magnetized.
Experience – Who else never wants to fake the big O again? Bad boys, while they too can’t always make women climax (har har!), they act like they CAN. The promise of a wild ride makes women fall for Bad Boys.