For Single Girls: Waiting for the Right Guy, or the Birds?
If you’ve been single for a while and you know you’re great, you might be wondering why you don’t have a boyfriend yet. Is it because you don’t want to take the risk and fall for just “any guy”, or is it because you don’t want to fall for the wrong type of guy?
Before you decide whether to stay on your pedestal or go down and mingle with the “average joes”, you must read this poem I found on this site.
Here, I built my own tree with the poem.
Girls are like
apples on trees. The best
ones are at the top of the tree.
The boys don’t want to reach for
the good ones because they are afraid
of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they
just get the rotten apples from the ground
that aren’t as good, but easy. So the apples
at the top think something is wrong with
them, when in reality, they’re amazing.
They just have to wait for the right
boy to come along, the one
who’s brave enough
to climb
all the way
to the top
of the tree.
Here’s the problem with the “brave men” who dared to climb that high:
When they get all the way to the top, they see all these OTHER beautiful, juicy and glistening apple fruits all around them, waiting to be picked. These men think, “why should I make do with one good fruit when I can eat a whole bunch?”
You, the one he climbed the tree for, suddenly feel cheated of the chance to be the ONLY apple for this guy who climbed all the way up the tree for you. The real quality men worth waiting for are those who will take the risk, and be able to stay loyal.
If you want to be the only “apple” for him, visit this site to find out how to catch the best guy and how to keep him loyal to you forever.
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You are so right.
The best things in life are worth the wait and effort. We value that which we work for and put effort into.
Why is that? Who knows, but it’s true and basic human nature.
I love my fruit. She is delicious and ripe.
WOOBIE YOU ROCK!
hello know1! So nice of you to drop by.
delicious and ripe? you are one lucky guy!
Kudos!
Ruby
i love it.
but, yes, i think guys who are willing to climb the tree all the way to the top are a rare breed – I just hope that someone will make the climb for me eventually.
in the meantime, i can say with a whole heart for the first time in a very long time… i am so enjoying not being found just yet! ;P
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Sometimes the apples on the ground begin to ferment and turn to alcohol. So when you partake of these, you can become intoxicated. Since they are on the ground, these apples are fairly easy to pick up. Sometimes you can even pick up multiple apples in one partaking with not much effort.
The top apples are often hard and only temporarily satisfying. They may have more nutrients, but they are often not as fun. You have to work harder, risk more, and settle for a sober nourishment.
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Awesome. You are the queen of apple and relationship analogies, my friend! I love it.
maybe it helps if apple fruits learned to gleam and dance in the wind to alert the fruit pickers that they’re there? I’m sure your picker will come soon enough.
Claire, thanks for the lemonade.
Never before had I ever heard anything of this kind. Awesome analogy. It’s so true once we manage to reach the top, we think all the other apples are equally good.
And then we become too indecisive and when greed takes over our mind, we slip and fall….
Yan
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Hmm… That’s an interesting analogy… but at 20 years old there really aren’t too many apples up at the top of the tree. Most of them have fallen directly on the lazy stomach of some picker who has been enjoying the intoxication of those apples near the bottom.
So I’m chilling up here… waiting for a new apple to pop up at the top so I can finally experience some real commitment (never been in a serious relationship, never even kissed… I’ve been climbing for a very long time…)
Thanks for the follow on Twitter by the way.
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@Yan
I think the word is “overwhelmed”? Every apple is different, some are more sour, some are sweeter. You just have to take a chance at one and bring it home, i guess. In the end, we all have to live with our choices.
@Another Guy
If you’re at the top part of the tree and you see no good apples around, maybe it’s time to look for a new tree? ^_^ I mean, why waste your “tree climbing” skills? Thanks for the visit, the twitter add and the comment!
I did take my chance and live with my own choice. I’m married…..;)
Perhaps. That goes along with what I’ve been learning lately. Some of these apples have told me I’m ‘the perfect guy’ but I also take way too long to actually pick the apple. I usually become ‘the friend guy’ by the end of things and the girl looks elsewhere.
I wonder if it’s guys like me that cause girls to fall to the ground or to look at themselves and wonder what is wrong?
Anyway, I am now getting confident that it is time for me to go climbing elsewhere. I’ve been to shy to climb back down and look somewhere else, so I’ve been sticking up here on top of this same tree I have been.
lol… that is totally weird….
@another guy
Being called “the perfect guy” is awesome, but yeah, sometimes it’s better to stash these perfect gentlemen inside a trunk called “friendship” for further appraisal when we (the single ladies) have had our fun with those who just want to sit on top of the tree and flirt with the apples.
^_^
Nice post, nice blog, don’t normally comment but good work