Oct
10

Does Anyone Still Celebrate Monthsary?

By woobie

One of the nuances of being in a relationship is keeping track of calendar events… the wholesome kind.

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For the record, I have never believed in celebrating a single Monthsary in my past relationships. However, the rest of the world seems to believe in it, promote it and celebrate it. The idea is that a couple celebrates anniversaries when they reach the first year, but have to give each other gifts and such every month on the same date. Example, If a girl and a guy hooked up during the first of January, they celebrate monthsary during the first day of the succeeding months until January comes again.

Benefits of a Celebrating a Monthsary

  • It is an excuse to do something special at least once a month.
  • It is romantic.
  • The couple has something to look forward to, sort of like a Valentine’s day each month.

Disadvantages of Celebrating a Monthsary:

  • It becomes a HUGE issue when someone forgets about it. It becomes another possible cause of a fight.
  • Sooner or later the couple will tire of buying expensive gifts and going to fancy dinners every single month. With the worsening financial status of everyone we know, it’s pretty hard to spend a few hundred dollars a month for a hotel stay or a candle lit dinner.

Things you can do during your Monthsary

1. Start a Time Capsule – If you save a souvenir each month, you will have 12 items in your time capsule on your first year, 24 items on your second and so on. You can seal the time capsule when you get married or when you have your baby, then open the capsule during your 25th year anniversary as an old staid couple.

2. Home Spa – Massage each other with scented oils, each time concentrating on one part of the other’s body. Romantic and kinky, and very sweet.

Or, you can consider a system called Green Infrared Sauna from our advertisers at Nature Moms.


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4 Comments

1

Monthsaries used to be a big deal to me and my past GFs, then I realized that anniversaries matter more. So monthsaries are like events that are there, but we don’t really celebrate them.

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yes i think monthsarys are romantic… but im also worried of getting tired of celebrating it… and worried about running out of ideas on what to do on monthsarys… thats why im here im looking for ideas… my monthsarys coming up… hehe

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@Wildug
I like the rule about not celebrating monthsary after the first year! It really took off the pressure of thinking of gifts every single month.

4

Hi,
Having home spa is ultimate experience.A steam treatment is a sensuous experience that should leave you feeling relaxed.
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