If I had a cent for every time I was asked “Does size really matter?”, I would have put up enough to buy a new, state-of-the-art cellular phone.

My constant reply would be a laugh, followed by the following:

Does size matter? If it matters to you, then maybe it does.
Is size an issue? If it’s an issue to you, then maybe it is.

P-envy is an overrated reality for most guys, particularly Filipino men. While the general consensus is that Western men are more well-endowed than Asians, I’m inclined to believe that the envy thing is just a manifestation of a person’s insecurities. Girls aren’t spared by the P-envy dilemma, but for women, this can be more aptly tagged boob envy or ass envy (let’s face it, we can’t all be as butt-y as J-Lo).

Admittedly, some women prefer biggies to cuties, but that’s exactly what it is… preference. When people list what really turns them on, a big percentage of the list comprises their partner’s personality: consideration, experience, communication and over-all hygiene. The physical plays a role for sure, however, size becomes a factor only when you let it.

People who have P-envy focus a lot more on their insecurities than actually improving their performance. How in the world will you improve when at the back of your mind you’re always telling yourself “she probably thinks I’m too small”.

Just take what you have and make it work. Accept yourself and be content with what you can do. In the end, everything in the whole universe can be handled using the same principle.

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